Christian
Life Class -
To
know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding;
To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and
equity; To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge
and discretion.
A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of
understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: Proverbs
1:2-5 |
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Scheduled
Activities:
Seven weekly classes are held on ___________.
There will be seven classes studying
Christian principals with open discussion. The following text will
be discussed at length with biblical references. |
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Topics
- Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding,
Rivers of Living
Water, Adultery,
Christian_Single_Dating,
Looking_For_A_Spouse,
Marriage_Relationship,
Divorce, Husbands,
Wives, Sins,
Anger, Forgiveness |
Bible
Refs. - God's
Promises' for Your Every Need, The
Serviceman's Topical Bible, The
Way for Cowboy's, Rivers
of Living Water, King
James Bible Online |
Week
1 - Introduction, Testimony, Anger, Forgiveness Back_To_Top |
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams,5 min
I
Speak Jesus, by Charity Gayle, 7:46 min
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily
Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.
I
would like to get to know my audience a little bit so I can gear
my message for you.
Questions:
raise your hand the following
1. How many of you are single?
2. How many of you are dating?
3. Of the ones that are single and dating, have you been taught
by anyone how to live single or date as a Christian?
4. How many of you are currently married?
5. How many of you are divorced?
6. How many of you have a spouse waiting for you when you get
out hoping you are a new person?
7. How many of you are receiving Bible studies?
8. How many of you are receiving Life skill training as Christians?
9. How many of you would say that you have dedicated or re-dedicatd
your life to living using Jesus Christ as your compass?
10. How many of you know what a topical bible is?
Definition
of Testimony
(Christianity.com
dictionary) - “Sharing (or giving) a testimony” in Christianity
is telling someone else about your relationship with God. Christian
believers would likely define testimony by the public profession
of their faith journey and relationship with God.
Summary
Testimony - George's
Testimony has 45 years as an adult living a sinful worldly
existence as a Christian with external salvation provided by accepting
Jesus Christ as my savior. Blessing-1,
Blessing-3
I
was saved at the age of 12 but walked in sin (1972 - 2008) for
36 plus years after being saved. My sins included but not limited
to pornography, adultery, divorce, drugs, and alcohol. All the
worldly sins that men and women are exposed to daily. (Footprints)
In
2008 I decided to listen to the Holy Spirit and start walking
with Jesus Christ. Once I started walking with Jesus, God's blessings
began pouring out over me included biblical second marriage, God's
grace, and retirement God's way. Blessing-4
Being
saved means you have been promised eternal life with Christ when
you die.
It
does not mean that you will not have worldly problems here on
Earth until you die.
It
does not mean that you will not have to pay for worldly choices
or the mistakes you make.
It
means God will not hold sins against you. You are forgiven by
God. Born again Christians should also forgive your sins, but
that is not always the case. If they won't forgive your sins after
have truly confessed to them, they are not walking as a Christian.
They are living in the world and reacting to the sin as the world
would.
If
you live in the world, which all people do, you will be exposed
to the sinful nature of the world constantly. You will be constantly
tempted. If you fail to temptations, you are Christian, but you
are of the world. You are not walking as a Christian should.
The
Lord wants you to follow his teachings and allow the Holy Spirit
to dwell in you. The Holy Spirit will protect you from sin if
you listen to it. If you do not listen to the Holy Spirit, you
will not experience Heaven on Earth, with all the blessings that
Christ can pour out on you.
You
will still have to deal with all the worldly consequences of your
sinful actions.
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House
of Hope Scripture
That
if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt
believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead,
thou shalt be saved. Romans
10:9

Anger
"He that is slow to anger is better
than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh
a city." Proverbs
16:32
"Blessed are the peacemakers: for
they shall be called the children of God." Matthew
5:9
"Be ye angry, and sin not: let not
the sun go down upon your wrath: Let all bitterness, and wrath,
and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you,
with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted,
forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven
you."
Ephesians
4:26, 31,32
"But now you yourselves are to put
off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language
out of your mouth."
Colossian
3:8
But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry
with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment:
and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger
of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in
danger of hell fire. Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar,
and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee;
Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be
reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.
Matthew
5:22-24
Forgiveness
"Therefore,
if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have
passed away; behold, all things have become new."
2
Corinthians 5:17
"Bearing
with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint
against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must
do." Colossians
3:13
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Graphic
Presentation of a Typical Christian Life - 10 min
Born again Christian with eternal salvation thru Jesus Christ.
Blessings-1
Blessings
withheld because of sinful nature and not walking daily with
Jesus Christ (wife or husband or both). Blessings-2
Blessings withheld from whole family or individuals in your
care because of your sinful nature and not walking daily with
Jesus Christ (you never know how your withheld blessings effect
others around you). Blessings-3
Blessings
for whole family or individuals in your care because of walking
daily with Jesus Christ. You will never know how your blessings
effect others around you. Blessings-3and4
Steps
to obtaining all the blessings that the Lord Jesus Christ wants
for your life. Blessings
1-4
The
Goal, result of walking in Christ daily and NOT sinning. Blessings
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Prayer
- 5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
Closing
Prayer - 5 min
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Week
2 - Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding, Carnal Christian, Spiritual Christian,
Adultery, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Wisdom,
Knowledge, Understanding
Seeking
wisdom through bible reading, prayer & praise, Christian fellowship,
mentoring, and counseling.
God's
will is simple and practical, applying to every aspect of a persons
life. God's will is for everyone to love each other as they love
themselves. To be Compassionate and Loving to each other.
Knowing
Your Identity In Christ
Ask
yourself the following questions.
Are
you a Christian who has accepted Jesus Christ's death on the cross
for your sins and resurection for your eternal salvation?
Are
you a born again Christian who walk daily with Jesus Christ following
his teachings and the teachings of his Disciples in the church?
A
Proper Relationship with God Involves Three Steps.
First:
Understanding God's plan for your life.
Second: Embracing and obeying what one understands.
Third: Live life to fullest with God's grace
and blessings showering over you.
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Proverbs
is a good study for learning life skills as a born again Christian.
"The
fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise
wisdom and instruction."
Proverbs
1:7
“For
the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and
understanding.” Proverbs
2:6
“Wisdom
is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy
getting get understanding.”
Proverbs
4:7
My son, despise
not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction:
For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son
in whom he delighteth. Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and
the man that getteth understanding. For the merchandise of it
is better than the merchandise of silver, and the gain thereof
than fine gold."
Proverbs
3:11-14
"My
son, let not them depart from thine eyes: keep sound wisdom and
discretion: So shall they be life unto thy soul, and grace to
thy neck. Then shalt thou walk in thy way safely, and thy foot
shall not stumble. When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid:
yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet. Be not
afraid of sudden fear, neither of the desolation of the wicked,
when it cometh. For the LORD shall be thy confidence, and shall
keep thy foot from being taken."
Proverbs
3:21-26
To
know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding;
To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and
equity; To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge
and discretion.
A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of
understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: Proverbs
1:2-5
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Following
text taken from, "Rivers
of Living Water" by Ruth Paxson, June 1930
There
are two kinds of Christians clearly named and described in Scripture.
It
is of the utmost importance that every Christian should know which
kind he or she is and then determine which kind he or she wants
to be. Paul, in I
Corinthians 3:1-4, speaks of Christians as either Carnal
or Spiritual. It is a Life of Unceasing Conflict.
Two
natures, the divine and the fleshly, are engaged in deadly warfare
within the Christian. More often the fleshly nature is in control,
and there is little enjoyment of spiritual blessings.
A
Carnal Christian is one
that is lives in the world. Sins of the flesh are something all
Christians are exposed to daily. Carnal Christians are Christians
that are saved but they do not enjoy the blessings from God.
A
Spiritual Christian is one
that lives in the world but is not of the world. Spiritual Christians
are Christians that are filled by the Holy Spirit and enjoy the
blessings from God by following the ways taught by Jesus Christ.
The answer is found in the Christian relationship to Christ. Christ
and the Christian are one.
With
a growing knowledge of Him and a deepening communion with Him
there must be a growing likeness to Him. Then
you will be so transformed into His image and that others looking
at you will see not you but Christ in you.
The
Christian will regard the pleasures, pursuits, principles and
plans of the world exactly as Jesus Christ did. He was not of
the world; therefore, the world hated and persecuted Him. So will
the world treat the Christian.
Every
Christian is called to a holy life. But many Christians do not
want to be holy. They may want to be spiritual, but they are afraid
to be holy. This may be due to misunderstanding of what holiness
is through false teachings on this subject.
Holiness
is a heart of pure love for God. It is Christ, the Holy One, in
us, living, speaking, and walking.
Which
is your life, that of a carnal or a spiritual Christian?
If
you are receiving God's blessings now you are living "Heaven
on Earth" and you would be considered a spiritual Christian.
If
you are not receivng God's blessings now and you are living a
"Worldly Life" then you would be considered a carnal
Christian.
What
are you willing to do to have God's blessings NOW and live Heaven
on Earth?
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guideline to follow is "What would Jesus do." |
The
Marks of a Carnal Christian
"For I delight in the law of God after
the inward man: But I see another law in my members, warring against
the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law
of sin which is in my members."
Romans
7:22-23
"O wretched
man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?"
Romans
7:24
"Every
branch in me that beareth not fruit the taketh away, and every
branch that bearth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth
more fruit." John
15:2
"Whosover
therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God."
James
4:4
"Love
not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any
man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For
all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust
of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but
is of the world."
1
John 2:15-16
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The
Marks of a Spiritual Christian
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as
the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled,
neither let it be afraid."
John
14:27
"Behold,
thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part
thou shalt make me to know wisdom. Create in me a clean heart,
O God; and renew a right spirit within me." Psalms
51:6&10
"Having
therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves
from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness
in the fear of God."
2
Corinthains 7:1
"For
the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free
from the law of sin and death."
Romans
8:2
"But
the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness,
goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no
law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with
the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also
walk in the Spirit." Galatians
5:22-25
"I have
given them thy word; and the world hath hated them, because they
are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. I pray not
that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou
shouldest keep them from the evil. They are not of the world,
even as I am not of the world."
John
17:14-16
"Remember
the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than
his Lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute
you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also."
John
15:20
"But
as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner
of conversation; Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy."
1
Peter 1:15-16
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Adultery
The
action of thinking, looking, and commiting the act of "The
Flesh" is sex if commited outside marriage. Looking at pornography
in magazines or the internet are considered adultery. Sleeping
with a someone that is not your spouse is the worldly view and
Godly view of adultery. Two people living together outside of
marriage is adultery. Looking at a someone in a lustful way is
adultry.
Sex
outside of marriage is adultery.
Consider
the marriage (love) relationship to be the only union between
man and woman that is pleasing to God.
Everything
else is adultery.
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"Thou
shall not commit adultery."
Exodus
20:14
"Let
thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Let her be as the loving hind and pleaseant roe; let her breasts
satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with
her love." Proverbs
5:18-19
"But
whoso committeth adultery with a women lacketh understanding:
he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul."
Proverbs 6:32
"What?
know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which
is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For
ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body,
and in your spirit, which are of God's." 1
Corthinthians 6:19-20
"Marriage
is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers
and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews
13:4
“What?
know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which
is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” 1
Corinthians 6:19
“He
sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their
destructions.” Psalms
107:20
“Thy
lips, O my spouse, drop as the honeycomb: honey and milk are
under thy tongue; and the smell of thy garments is like the
smell of Lebanon.” Song
of Solomon 4:11
"But
I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after
her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. And
if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from
thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members
should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into
hell. And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast
it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy
members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be
cast into hell. It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away
his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: But I say
unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for
the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and
whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."
Matthew
5:28-32
"Flee
from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is
outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against
his own body. What? know that your body is a temple of the Holy
Spirit within you, whom you have from God, you are not your
own? For you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God
in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
1
Corinthians 6:18–20
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Audio
clips from Family Life:
Adultery,
"My
Spouse is Having an Affair", 25:29 min
Adultery,
"The
Anatomy of an Affair", 28:54 min
Adultery,
"What
Do I Do If My Wife Doesn't Trust Me", 25:20 mi
Prayer
- 5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
Closing
Prayer - 5 min |
Result
of NOT walking in Christ daily and sinning.

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Week
3 - Christian Single Dating, Looking For a Spouse, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Christian
Single Dating
You
should not be dating unless you are ready to be married. Temptations
of the flesh are always on a person’s mind unless you address
them from the beginning and not exposing yourself to the environment
of one night stands of dating (sins of the flesh).
Sadly
and tragically, sexual immorality seems to be the norm — even,
in some cases, among relationships claiming to be Christian. But
when everyone else is giving in, we refuse to give up. Whenever
we are tempted to cross boundaries you have lovingly set for us,
carry our minds to the cross, where Jesus died to liberate us
from every ounce of sexual sin. It will be one of the most radical,
countercultural, Spirit-enabled feats of our lives: choosing to
deny the impulse to experiment or express ourselves sexually in
dating because we trust you and treasure Jesus.
desiringdGod.org
(popular link)
Prayer
for Dating -
5 min
Looking
for Spouse
You
need to be specific when looking for a spouse. You need to be
equally yoked to make a successful lifelong marriage. This means
you must know what you want in a spouse and look for that in the
people you consider dating.
A
spouse is more than your partner in marriage. It is that special
someone that will meet all of your needs for the rest of your
life. You need to know waht is important for you knowing that
no one is perfect. Know what you want and pray over it.
Three
things I suggest you doing.
First
Write a one-page
summary of how you see yourself in 5 years, 10 years, and 20 years
if you met the person of your dreams. The details of your document
should include: education, profession or job, do you want kids
(how many), finances, 2 incomes or 1, wife at home or not, how
do you live and where, number of automobiles, who works and when,
and standard of living.
Second
Write a one
page document describing the traits and characteristics of your
future spouse. What you like and dislike. Both steps will help
you to define your future.
Third, most important.
Prayer while
you are writing these documents for God to give you direction
in finding a Godly spouse that fills your heart. Looking and praying
for a Godly spouse will insure that your marriage is biblically
based and you determine upfront how the "Worldly View"
of marriage will NOT affect you in your Christian walk together.
Prayer
for Looking for A Spouse -
5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
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The
Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with
Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

“Who
can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”
Proverbs 31:10
"Two
are better than one; because they have a good reward for their
labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but
woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another
to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat:
but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him,
two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes
4:9-12
“Neither
yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin:
but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the
dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.”
Romans
6:13
"Flee
from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside
the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own
body. What? know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit
within you, whom you have from God, you are not your own? For
you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body,
and in your spirit, which are God's."
1
Corinthians 6:18–20
"Be
ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship
hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath
light with darkness?"
2
Corinthains 6:14
“Keep
yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord
Jesus Christ unto eternal life.” Jude
1:21
“Delight
thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of
thine heart.” Psalms
37:4
“Lord,
all my desire is before thee; and my groaning is not hid from
thee.” Psalms
38:9
The
fear of the wicked, it shall come upon him: but the desire of
the righteous shall be granted.” Proverbs
10:24
“Therefore
I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe
that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.”
Mark
11:24
“And
whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments,
and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.” 1
John 3:22
“And
if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we
have the petitions that we desired of him.”
1
John 5:15
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Audio
clips from Family Life:
Dating,
"Being
Single and Dating" 27:56 min
Dating,
"Dating
With Purpose" 34:34 min
Dating,
"Being
Single and Dating" 28:0 min
Choosing a
Spouse, "Seeking
a Spouse" 31:29 min
Choosing a
Spouse, "Intentional
Dating" 29:37 min
Choosing
a Spouse, "Instructions
to Women" 24:10 min
Choosing
a Spouse, "Instructions
to Men" 24:53 min |
Week
4, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Marriage
Relationship
Building
a Spiritual Foundation for Your Marriage
by Family
Life
Video-1,
Marriage
was created to be a special covenant between a man, a woman, and
their God. The vows you share with your spouse you share with
God.
If you want your marriage to grow strong, one of the most important
questions you and your spouse should answer is, “How are we going
to grow spiritually?” Because God created marriage, it is not
merely two people in a relationship, but three—a husband, a wife,
and God. Failing to address this question can almost guarantee
that your marriage will not achieve the intimacy and oneness that
God designed.
Three
key ingredients of a dynamic Christian life have significance
when applied to the oneness you are trying to achieve as a married
couple. I’ll state these in the form of questions:
1.
Are you and your spouse a part of the family of God?
2. Are both of you allowing Christ to control your entire lives?
3. Are both of you allowing the Holy Spirit to guide and empower
your lives?
Unless you answer yes to all three questions, you will lack the
power to build your home with the oneness God intends.
Marriage
first and foremost is a spiritual relationship. It works best
when two people are connected individually to their spouse and
then to their God, walking with Him, obeying Him through Scripture,
and praying as individuals and as a co
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What
Makes a Marriage Distinctively Christian?
by Family
Life
Years ago, when I was a single college student and a young follower
of Christ, I traveled with some buddies to Southern California.
One of my friends knew a family in Pasadena who offered us a place
to stay.
I
will never forget walking into this home in Pasadena. Almost immediately
I noticed that there was just something different in the atmosphere.
I
had never met these people before, but within 20 minutes I felt
like I‘d known them all my life. They displayed genuine hospitality,
care, love, and graciousness that I had never seen in a home before.
In
2 Corinthians 2:14-15 we read, “But thanks be to God, who in Christ
always leads us in triumphal procession, and through us spreads
the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are the
aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among
those who are perishing.” That’s what I could smell in that house—the
fragrance of Christ in the lives of these people who had been
transformed by Him. I’ve never forgotten what it was like to walk
into that kind of environment.
Now
the question for us is: What does it smell like in our homes?
If folks walked into our houses, would the fragrance of Christ
be present? Do people look at our marriages and see and smell
the aroma of Christ?
I
believe there are two factors that give a marriage the fragrance
of Christ—that make it distinctively Christian. And both are impossible
without the transforming grace of God.
1.
A uniquely Christian marriage has a different kind of purpose.
When asked why they get married, most people will say something
like, “Well, we’re just in love.” But behind that statement are
a number of other reasons for marriage:
•
They’ve dated long enough, and marriage is the next step.
• They want sex without guilt.
• They are adults, and marriage is what’s expected.
• There are economic benefits from combining incomes into
one household.
• They want someone to take care of them.
• They are lonely, and need the companionship.
• Their biological clock is ticking, and they figure it’s
time to start a family.
• They want to escape a bad situation—abusive parents, pregnancy,
etc.
At the heart of most of these reasons for marriage is the big
me. People are getting married for self-centered reasons, not
God-centered purposes. That describes me as well.
A
higher purpose
When you focus your marriage on exalting and glorifying God together,
your relationship will become a vehicle through which people can
smell the aroma of Christ. It will be a demonstration of the gospel
to the world—you will show God’s grace, His compassion, His forgiveness.
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The
Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in
with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT
sinning.

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“Whoso findeth
a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.”
Proverbs
18:22
“House and
riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from
the LORD.” Proverbs
19:14
“A false balance
is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight.”
Proverbs
11:1
"Submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves
unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the
head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and
he is the saviour of the body.
Therefore
as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their
own husbands in every thing.
Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave
himself for it."
Ephesians
5:21-25
“Nevertheless
let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;
and the wife
see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians
5:33
"Wives,
submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the
Lord.
Husbands,
love your wives, and be not bitter against them." Colossians
3:18-19
"Likewise,
ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any
obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the
conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation
coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning
of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on
of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that
which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet
spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after
this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in
God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters
ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
Likewise,
ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour
unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together
of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Finally,
be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love
as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: Not rendering evil for
evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing
that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain
his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: Let
him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it."
1
Peter 3:1-11
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Audio
clips from Family Life:
Marriage,
Christian Partners, "Building
a Spiritual Foundation for Your Marriage" (text)
Marriage,
Christian Partners, "What
makes a Marriage Distinctively Christian" (text)
Marriage,
Marriage
Memo
Marriage,
Choosing
a Spouse
Marriage,
Getting
Married
Marriage,
Marraige
Challenges
Marriage,
Busyness
& Stress
Marriage,
Drifting
Apart
Marriage,
Finances
Marriage,
Understanding
Differences
Marriage,
God's
Plan for Marriage
Marriage,
Forgiveness
Marriage,
Growing
Spiritually
Marriage,
Romance
& Sex
Marriage,
"Resurecting
a Marriage"
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Divorce
It
should not be surprising that God declares, in Malachi 2:16, “I
hate divorce!” And why does He hate divorce? One reason is that
marriage is meant to be a special covenant between a man, a woman,
and their God. The vows you share with your spouse you share with
God.
God's
marriage covenant should be taken seriously and every word be
understood completely.
“I,
Dennis, take you, Barbara, to be my lawful wedded wife. I promise
and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving
and faithful husband; to stand by you in riches and in poverty,
in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, forsaking all
others, as long as we both shall live.” Dennis
Rainey to Barbara
Another
reason God hates divorce is because it tears at the very heart
of God’s redemptive plan for the world. It is interesting to note
the conversation between Jesus and the Pharisees in Matthew 19:3-9.
When the Pharisees ask, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his
wife for any reason at all?” Jesus answers by pointing them to
God’s purposes for marriage:
And
He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them
from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this
reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to
his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no
longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together,
let no man separate.”
Prayer
- 5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
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Audio
clips from Family Life:
Divorce,
"The
Cost of Divorce on Children" 24:47 min
Divorce,
"The
Emotional Cost of Divorce" 24:27 min
Divorce,
"The
Financial Cost of Divorce" 24:47 imn
Divorce,
"Hope
When Things Seem Hopeless" 29:21 min
Divorce,
"Impact
of Divorce" 27:12 min
Marriage,
Saving a Marriage, "Resurecting
a Marriage" 25:33 min
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Week
5, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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The
Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in
with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT
sinning.

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Marriage
- Husbands
Audio-1,
Marriage
is first and foremost is a spiritual relationship called a marriage
covanant with God. It works best when two people are connected
individually to their spouse and then to their God, walking with
Him, obeying Him through Scripture, and praying as individuals
and as a couple.
Cheryl
and I went to a Family Life Marriage Conference called a Weekend
to Remember at the beginning of our marriage to get on the same
page with a Biblical marriage. During the men's class it was suggested
that the men write a poem to our wifes to explain our feeling
for them. I wrote these at the beginning of our marriage when
I was having trouble describing to her how I felt about her, sex,
and the topic of marriage.
My
belief in marriage cannot be better explained than in the text
of the following poems. I am not a writter and they both took
many drafts. The words and thoughts I put into the poems are God
inspired as you will see.The initial drafts were rough but were
revised many times over the first 5 years of our marriage to the
following linked below.
We
have been married now working on 19 years and we still have our
moments, but overall we are walking "heaven on earth"
with the flowing of God's blessings over us.
God's
Provision for a Godly Husband
The
Love between a Husband and his Wife
Ten
Things Husbands Need to Remember
1. Wife's Birthday, wedding anniversery
2. Find out what she likes and do it with or for her.
3. Use her as wise counsel as directed by God
4. Text or email flowers to her let her know you are thinking
of her.
5. Put your focus on pleasing her in your actions.
6. Do not compare your wife to any other woman.
7. Accept any failings your wife may have and do not make an issue
of it.
8. Provide for yourself when possible to show you care about how
hard she works at home.
9. Help with housecleaning and other chores.
10. Remove the "D" word from your vocabulary. It is
not an option in God's eyes and should not be an option for you.
Prayer
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“That
the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity,
in patience.” Titus
2:2
“Young men
likewise exhort to be sober minded.” Titus
2:6
"Therefore
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave
unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
Genesis
2:24
"And
he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which
made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said,
For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall
cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore
they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath
joined together, let not man put asunder."
Matthew
19:4-6
"Husbands,
love your wives, and be not bitter against them."
Colossians
3:19
"Submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of God."
Ephesians
5:21
“Nevertheless
let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;"
Ephesians
5:33
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Audio
clips from Family Life:
Marriage,
Husbands, "REAL
Men Star Here" 30:18 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "How
to Be the Spiritual Leader of Your Family" 25:20 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "Will
the Real Man Please Stand Up?" 28:52 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "REAL
Men Starrt Here" 30:18 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "Husbands
Love Your Wives" 27:40 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "Being
a Man in Your Marriage" 28:15 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "How
to Live in Love With Your Wife" 28:05 min
Marriage,
Husbands, "Expect
Less and Get More" 26:24 min
Marriage, Husbands, "Praying
for Your Wife" 44:24 min
Marriage, Husbands, "Trusting
His Leadership" 28:30 min
Life
Issues, Men, "A
Leader at Home: Where Do I Start?" 24:55 min
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Marraige
- Wifes
"Who
can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he
shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil
all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh
willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she
bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night,
and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her
hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength,
and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise
is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands
to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth
out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to
the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for
all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself
coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband
is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the
land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles
unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she
shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom;
and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to
the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also,
and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but
thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain:
but a woman that Sfeareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give
her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her
in the gates." Proverbs
31:10-31
Prayer
- 5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
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"Therefore
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave
unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
Genesis
2:24
"Submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of God."
Ephesians
5:21
“and the wife
see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians
5:33
"Wives,
submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the
Lord." Colossians
3:18
"I will
therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the
house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully."
1
Timothy 5:14
“The aged
women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness,
not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their
husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers
at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of
God be not blasphemed.”
Titus 2:3-5
"And
he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which
made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said,
For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall
cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore
they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath
joined together, let not man put asunder."
Matthew
19:4-6
Audio
clips from Family Life:
Marriage,
Wives, "Real
Woman, Real Strong" 29:53 min
Marriage,
Wives, "How
to Support Your Wife" 26:10 min
Marriage,
Wives, "Wives,
Cheer Your Man" 22:44 min
Marriage,
Wives, "Seeing
My Husband As My Hero" 28:26 min
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Week
6, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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Blessings
withheld because of sin and not walking daily with Jesus Christ
(wife or husband or both):

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Sins
- 35 min
A
Carnal Christian is one that is lives in the world. Sins of the
flesh are something all Christians are exposed to daily. Carnal
Christians are Christians that are saved but they do not enjoy
the blessings from God. Blessings-2
When
we have the Holy Spirit living in us we look at sin differently
and turn away from it. If we listen to the temptations of sin
like most people in the world we would step outside of God's blessings
and would no longer be living Heaven on Earth.
The
list of sins are different for each religion type. Check with
your Pastor or Priest for a list that you should follow. The following
Website by Christian author Richard Hollerman contains a List
of Sins from the New Testament. The list is subject to authors
opinion and not that of any church or religion.
Prayer
-
5 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
Closing
Prayer - 5 min |
"if
thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest
not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire,
and thou shalt rule over him." Gensis
4:7
"For
I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin"
Psalm
38:18
"Thy
word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee."
Psalm
119:11
"For
the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal lifed
through Jesus Christ or Lord." Romans
6:23
"My little children, these things write I unto you, that
ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father,
Jesus Christ the righteous." 1
John 2:1
"But
if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship
one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleaneth
us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves,
and the truth is not in us." 1
John 1:7-8
Audio
clips from Family Life:
Sins,
Workaholism, "Why
Workaholism Looks So Good" 26:39 min
Sins,
Pornography,
"This
is Your Marriage on Porn" 30:17 min
Addiction,
"Escaping
the Secret Life") 29:20 min
Addiction, "Who
is In Control") 26:16 min
Addiction, "How
Can A Good Man Be Tempted By Porn" 35:57 min
Addiction, "Desending
into Drugs" 24:32 min
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Week
7 - Review, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Music
- Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Opening
Prayer
5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers.
Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised
us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk
with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen. |

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Graphic
Presentation of a Typical Christian Life - 10 min
Born again Christian with eternal salvation thru Jesus Christ.
Blessings-1
Blessings
withheld because of sinful nature and not walking daily with
Jesus Christ (wife or husband or both). Blessings-2
Blessings withheld from whole family or individuals in your
care because of your sinful nature and not walking daily with
Jesus Christ (you never know how your withheld blessings effect
others around you). Blessings-3
Blessings
for whole family or individuals in your care because of walking
daily with Jesus Christ. You will never know how your blessings
effect others around you. Blessings-3and4
Steps
to obtaining all the blessings that the Lord Jesus Christ wants
for your life. Blessings
1-4
The
Goal, result of walking in Christ daily and NOT sinning. Blessings
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Review
- 35 min
Week
1 - Wisdom, Knowledge,
Understanding
Week
2 - Adultery
Week
3 - Christian
Single Dating, Looking
For A Spouse
Week
4 - Marriage
Relationship, Divorce
Week
5 - Husbands,
Wives
Week
6 - Sins
Week
7 - Review
Week
8 - Gospel
Concert |
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
Closing
Prayer - 5 min
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Week
8 - Gospel Music Concert, Back_To_Top
Topic
/ Prayer |
Bible
References |
Opening
Prayer - 5 min
Dear
Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for
the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that
were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there.
Lord, be with us as we sing and praise You. Let our music and
praise be pleasing to your ears. Dear Lord we ask for you to pour
out abundant blessings on all of us. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Chainbreaker,
by Zach Williams, 5 min
Online
Gospel Music, by "The Disciples", 35 min
Saved
by Christ Altar Call - 10 min
Walking
In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10
min
Closing
Prayer - 5 min
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The
Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with
Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

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