Christian Life Class -

To know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding; To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and equity; To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion. A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: Proverbs 1:2-5

 
Scheduled Activities:
Seven weekly classes are held on ___________. There will be seven classes studying Christian principals with open discussion. The following text will be discussed at length with biblical references.
Past YouTube - Week 1, Week 2, Week 3, Week 4
Bible Refs. - God's Promises' for Your Every Need, The Serviceman's Topical Bible, The Way for Cowboy's, Rivers of Living Water, King James Bible Online
Week 1 - Introduction, Testimony, Anger, Forgiveness Back_To_Top
Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams,5 min

I Speak Jesus, by Charity Gayle, 7:46 min

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

I would like to get to know my audience a little bit so I can gear my message for you.

Questions: raise your hand the following

1. How many of you are single?
2. How many of you are dating?
3. Of the ones that are single and dating, have you been taught by anyone how to live single or date as a Christian?
4. How many of you are currently married?
5. How many of you are divorced?
6. How many of you have a spouse waiting for you when you get out hoping you are a new person?
7. How many of you are receiving Bible studies?
8. How many of you are receiving Life skill training as Christians?
9. How many of you would say that you have dedicated or re-dedicatd your life to living using Jesus Christ as your compass?
10. How many of you know what a topical bible is?

Definition of Testimony
(Christianity.com dictionary) - “Sharing (or giving) a testimony” in Christianity is telling someone else about your relationship with God. Christian believers would likely define testimony by the public profession of their faith journey and relationship with God.

Summary Testimony - George's Testimony has 45 years as an adult living a sinful worldly existence as a Christian with external salvation provided by accepting Jesus Christ as my savior. Blessing-1, Blessing-3

I was saved at the age of 12 but walked in sin (1972 - 2008) for 36 plus years after being saved. My sins included but not limited to pornography, adultery, divorce, drugs, and alcohol. All the worldly sins that men and women are exposed to daily. (Footprints)

In 2008 I decided to listen to the Holy Spirit and start walking with Jesus Christ. Once I started walking with Jesus, God's blessings began pouring out over me included biblical second marriage, God's grace, and retirement God's way. Blessing-4

Being saved means you have been promised eternal life with Christ when you die.

It does not mean that you will not have worldly problems here on Earth until you die.

It does not mean that you will not have to pay for worldly choices or the mistakes you make.

It means God will not hold sins against you. You are forgiven by God. Born again Christians should also forgive your sins, but that is not always the case. If they won't forgive your sins after have truly confessed to them, they are not walking as a Christian. They are living in the world and reacting to the sin as the world would.

If you live in the world, which all people do, you will be exposed to the sinful nature of the world constantly. You will be constantly tempted. If you fail to temptations, you are Christian, but you are of the world. You are not walking as a Christian should.

The Lord wants you to follow his teachings and allow the Holy Spirit to dwell in you. The Holy Spirit will protect you from sin if you listen to it. If you do not listen to the Holy Spirit, you will not experience Heaven on Earth, with all the blessings that Christ can pour out on you.

You will still have to deal with all the worldly consequences of your sinful actions.

 

House of Hope Scripture

That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Romans 10:9

Anger

"He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city." Proverbs 16:32

"Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God." Matthew 5:9

"Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."
Ephesians 4:26, 31,32

"But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth."
Colossian 3:8

But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire. Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.
Matthew 5:22-24

Forgiveness

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new."
2 Corinthians 5:17

"Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do." Colossians 3:13

Graphic Presentation of a Typical Christian Life - 10 min

Born again Christian with eternal salvation thru Jesus Christ. Blessings-1

Blessings withheld because of sinful nature and not walking daily with Jesus Christ (wife or husband or both). Blessings-2

Blessings withheld from whole family or individuals in your care because of your sinful nature and not walking daily with Jesus Christ (you never know how your withheld blessings effect others around you). Blessings-3

Blessings for whole family or individuals in your care because of walking daily with Jesus Christ. You will never know how your blessings effect others around you. Blessings-3and4

Steps to obtaining all the blessings that the Lord Jesus Christ wants for your life. Blessings 1-4

The Goal, result of walking in Christ daily and NOT sinning. Blessings

Prayer - 5 min

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

Closing Prayer - 5 min

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Week 2 - Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding, Carnal Christian, Spiritual Christian, Adultery, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding

Seeking wisdom through bible reading, prayer & praise, Christian fellowship, mentoring, and counseling.

God's will is simple and practical, applying to every aspect of a persons life. God's will is for everyone to love each other as they love themselves. To be Compassionate and Loving to each other.

Knowing Your Identity In Christ

Ask yourself the following questions.

Are you a Christian who has accepted Jesus Christ's death on the cross for your sins and resurection for your eternal salvation?

Are you a born again Christian who walk daily with Jesus Christ following his teachings and the teachings of his Disciples in the church?

A Proper Relationship with God Involves Three Steps.

First: Understanding God's plan for your life.


Second: Embracing and obeying what one understands.


Third: Live life to fullest with God's grace and blessings showering over you.

Proverbs is a good study for learning life skills as a born again Christian.

"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction."
Proverbs 1:7

“For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.” Proverbs 2:6

“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.”
Proverbs 4:7

My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction: For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth. Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding. For the merchandise of it is better than the merchandise of silver, and the gain thereof than fine gold."
Proverbs 3:11-14

"My son, let not them depart from thine eyes: keep sound wisdom and discretion: So shall they be life unto thy soul, and grace to thy neck. Then shalt thou walk in thy way safely, and thy foot shall not stumble. When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet. Be not afraid of sudden fear, neither of the desolation of the wicked, when it cometh. For the LORD shall be thy confidence, and shall keep thy foot from being taken."
Proverbs 3:21-26

To know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding; To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and equity; To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion. A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: Proverbs 1:2-5

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Following text taken from, "Rivers of Living Water" by Ruth Paxson, June 1930

There are two kinds of Christians clearly named and described in Scripture.

It is of the utmost importance that every Christian should know which kind he or she is and then determine which kind he or she wants to be. Paul, in I Corinthians 3:1-4, speaks of Christians as either Carnal or Spiritual. It is a Life of Unceasing Conflict.

Two natures, the divine and the fleshly, are engaged in deadly warfare within the Christian. More often the fleshly nature is in control, and there is little enjoyment of spiritual blessings.

A Carnal Christian is one that is lives in the world. Sins of the flesh are something all Christians are exposed to daily. Carnal Christians are Christians that are saved but they do not enjoy the blessings from God.

A Spiritual Christian is one that lives in the world but is not of the world. Spiritual Christians are Christians that are filled by the Holy Spirit and enjoy the blessings from God by following the ways taught by Jesus Christ. The answer is found in the Christian relationship to Christ. Christ and the Christian are one.

With a growing knowledge of Him and a deepening communion with Him there must be a growing likeness to Him. Then you will be so transformed into His image and that others looking at you will see not you but Christ in you.

The Christian will regard the pleasures, pursuits, principles and plans of the world exactly as Jesus Christ did. He was not of the world; therefore, the world hated and persecuted Him. So will the world treat the Christian.

Every Christian is called to a holy life. But many Christians do not want to be holy. They may want to be spiritual, but they are afraid to be holy. This may be due to misunderstanding of what holiness is through false teachings on this subject.

Holiness is a heart of pure love for God. It is Christ, the Holy One, in us, living, speaking, and walking.

Which is your life, that of a carnal or a spiritual Christian?

If you are receiving God's blessings now you are living "Heaven on Earth" and you would be considered a spiritual Christian.

If you are not receivng God's blessings now and you are living a "Worldly Life" then you would be considered a carnal Christian.

What are you willing to do to have God's blessings NOW and live Heaven on Earth?

One guideline to follow is "What would Jesus do."

The Marks of a Carnal Christian
"For I delight in the law of God after the inward man: But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members."
Romans 7:22-23

"O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?" Romans 7:24

"Every branch in me that beareth not fruit the taketh away, and every branch that bearth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit." John 15:2

"Whosover therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God." James 4:4

"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world."
1 John 2:15-16

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The Marks of a Spiritual Christian
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."
John 14:27

"Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom. Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me." Psalms 51:6&10

"Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God."
2 Corinthains 7:1

"For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death."
Romans 8:2

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit." Galatians 5:22-25

"I have given them thy word; and the world hath hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. I pray not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil. They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world."
John 17:14-16

"Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his Lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also."
John 15:20

"But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy." 1 Peter 1:15-16

 

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Adultery

The action of thinking, looking, and commiting the act of "The Flesh" is sex if commited outside marriage. Looking at pornography in magazines or the internet are considered adultery. Sleeping with a someone that is not your spouse is the worldly view and Godly view of adultery. Two people living together outside of marriage is adultery. Looking at a someone in a lustful way is adultry.

Sex outside of marriage is adultery.

Consider the marriage (love) relationship to be the only union between man and woman that is pleasing to God.

Everything else is adultery.

 

 

 

"Thou shall not commit adultery." Exodus 20:14

"Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleaseant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love." Proverbs 5:18-19

"But whoso committeth adultery with a women lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul."
Proverbs 6:32

"What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are of God's." 1 Corthinthians 6:19-20

"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4

“What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” 1 Corinthians 6:19

“He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.” Psalms 107:20

“Thy lips, O my spouse, drop as the honeycomb: honey and milk are under thy tongue; and the smell of thy garments is like the smell of Lebanon.” Song of Solomon 4:11

"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."
Matthew 5:28-32

"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. What? know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, you are not your own? For you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
1 Corinthians 6:18–20

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Audio clips from Family Life:

Adultery, "My Spouse is Having an Affair", 25:29 min

Adultery, "The Anatomy of an Affair", 28:54 min

Adultery, "What Do I Do If My Wife Doesn't Trust Me", 25:20 mi

 

 

Prayer - 5 min

 

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

 

Closing Prayer - 5 min

Result of NOT walking in Christ daily and sinning.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Week 3 - Christian Single Dating, Looking For a Spouse, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Christian Single Dating

You should not be dating unless you are ready to be married. Temptations of the flesh are always on a person’s mind unless you address them from the beginning and not exposing yourself to the environment of one night stands of dating (sins of the flesh).

Sadly and tragically, sexual immorality seems to be the norm — even, in some cases, among relationships claiming to be Christian. But when everyone else is giving in, we refuse to give up. Whenever we are tempted to cross boundaries you have lovingly set for us, carry our minds to the cross, where Jesus died to liberate us from every ounce of sexual sin. It will be one of the most radical, countercultural, Spirit-enabled feats of our lives: choosing to deny the impulse to experiment or express ourselves sexually in dating because we trust you and treasure Jesus. desiringdGod.org (popular link)

 

Prayer for Dating - 5 min

 

Looking for Spouse

You need to be specific when looking for a spouse. You need to be equally yoked to make a successful lifelong marriage. This means you must know what you want in a spouse and look for that in the people you consider dating.

A spouse is more than your partner in marriage. It is that special someone that will meet all of your needs for the rest of your life. You need to know waht is important for you knowing that no one is perfect. Know what you want and pray over it.

Three things I suggest you doing.

First
Write a one-page summary of how you see yourself in 5 years, 10 years, and 20 years if you met the person of your dreams. The details of your document should include: education, profession or job, do you want kids (how many), finances, 2 incomes or 1, wife at home or not, how do you live and where, number of automobiles, who works and when, and standard of living.

Second
Write a one page document describing the traits and characteristics of your future spouse. What you like and dislike. Both steps will help you to define your future.

Third, most important.
Prayer while you are writing these documents for God to give you direction in finding a Godly spouse that fills your heart. Looking and praying for a Godly spouse will insure that your marriage is biblically based and you determine upfront how the "Worldly View" of marriage will NOT affect you in your Christian walk together.

Prayer for Looking for A Spouse - 5 min

 

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

 

The Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” Proverbs 31:10

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

“Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.” Romans 6:13

"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. What? know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, you are not your own? For you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
1 Corinthians 6:18–20

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"
2 Corinthains 6:14

“Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.” Jude 1:21

“Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.” Psalms 37:4

“Lord, all my desire is before thee; and my groaning is not hid from thee.” Psalms 38:9

The fear of the wicked, it shall come upon him: but the desire of the righteous shall be granted.” Proverbs 10:24

“Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.”
Mark 11:24

“And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.” 1 John 3:22

“And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him.”
1 John 5:15

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Audio clips from Family Life:

Dating, "Being Single and Dating" 27:56 min

Dating, "Dating With Purpose" 34:34 min

Dating, "Being Single and Dating" 28:0 min

Choosing a Spouse, "Seeking a Spouse" 31:29 min

Choosing a Spouse, "Intentional Dating" 29:37 min

Choosing a Spouse, "Instructions to Women" 24:10 min

Choosing a Spouse, "Instructions to Men" 24:53 min

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Week 4, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Marriage Relationship

Building a Spiritual Foundation for Your Marriage by Family Life

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Marriage was created to be a special covenant between a man, a woman, and their God. The vows you share with your spouse you share with God.

If you want your marriage to grow strong, one of the most important questions you and your spouse should answer is, “How are we going to grow spiritually?” Because God created marriage, it is not merely two people in a relationship, but three—a husband, a wife, and God. Failing to address this question can almost guarantee that your marriage will not achieve the intimacy and oneness that God designed.

Three key ingredients of a dynamic Christian life have significance when applied to the oneness you are trying to achieve as a married couple. I’ll state these in the form of questions:

1. Are you and your spouse a part of the family of God?
2. Are both of you allowing Christ to control your entire lives?
3. Are both of you allowing the Holy Spirit to guide and empower your lives?

Unless you answer yes to all three questions, you will lack the power to build your home with the oneness God intends.

Marriage first and foremost is a spiritual relationship. It works best when two people are connected individually to their spouse and then to their God, walking with Him, obeying Him through Scripture, and praying as individuals and as a co

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What Makes a Marriage Distinctively Christian? by Family Life
Years ago, when I was a single college student and a young follower of Christ, I traveled with some buddies to Southern California. One of my friends knew a family in Pasadena who offered us a place to stay.

I will never forget walking into this home in Pasadena. Almost immediately I noticed that there was just something different in the atmosphere.

I had never met these people before, but within 20 minutes I felt like I‘d known them all my life. They displayed genuine hospitality, care, love, and graciousness that I had never seen in a home before.

In 2 Corinthians 2:14-15 we read, “But thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession, and through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are the aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing.” That’s what I could smell in that house—the fragrance of Christ in the lives of these people who had been transformed by Him. I’ve never forgotten what it was like to walk into that kind of environment.

Now the question for us is: What does it smell like in our homes? If folks walked into our houses, would the fragrance of Christ be present? Do people look at our marriages and see and smell the aroma of Christ?

I believe there are two factors that give a marriage the fragrance of Christ—that make it distinctively Christian. And both are impossible without the transforming grace of God.

1. A uniquely Christian marriage has a different kind of purpose.
When asked why they get married, most people will say something like, “Well, we’re just in love.” But behind that statement are a number of other reasons for marriage:

• They’ve dated long enough, and marriage is the next step.
• They want sex without guilt.
• They are adults, and marriage is what’s expected.
• There are economic benefits from combining incomes into one household.
• They want someone to take care of them.
• They are lonely, and need the companionship.
• Their biological clock is ticking, and they figure it’s time to start a family.
• They want to escape a bad situation—abusive parents, pregnancy, etc.

At the heart of most of these reasons for marriage is the big me. People are getting married for self-centered reasons, not God-centered purposes. That describes me as well.

A higher purpose
When you focus your marriage on exalting and glorifying God together, your relationship will become a vehicle through which people can smell the aroma of Christ. It will be a demonstration of the gospel to the world—you will show God’s grace, His compassion, His forgiveness.

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Prayer

 

The Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.” Proverbs 18:22

“House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.” Proverbs 19:14

“A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight.” Proverbs 11:1

"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it."
Ephesians 5:21-25

“Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;

and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians 5:33

"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them." Colossians 3:18-19

"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it." 1 Peter 3:1-11

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Audio clips from Family Life:

Marriage, Christian Partners, "Building a Spiritual Foundation for Your Marriage" (text)

Marriage, Christian Partners, "What makes a Marriage Distinctively Christian" (text)

Marriage, Marriage Memo

Marriage, Choosing a Spouse

Marriage, Getting Married

Marriage, Marraige Challenges

Marriage, Busyness & Stress

Marriage, Drifting Apart

Marriage, Finances

Marriage, Understanding Differences

Marriage, God's Plan for Marriage

Marriage, Forgiveness

Marriage, Growing Spiritually

Marriage, Romance & Sex

Marriage, "Resurecting a Marriage"

 

 

 

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Divorce

It should not be surprising that God declares, in Malachi 2:16, “I hate divorce!” And why does He hate divorce? One reason is that marriage is meant to be a special covenant between a man, a woman, and their God. The vows you share with your spouse you share with God.

God's marriage covenant should be taken seriously and every word be understood completely.

“I, Dennis, take you, Barbara, to be my lawful wedded wife. I promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful husband; to stand by you in riches and in poverty, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, as long as we both shall live.” Dennis Rainey to Barbara

Another reason God hates divorce is because it tears at the very heart of God’s redemptive plan for the world. It is interesting to note the conversation between Jesus and the Pharisees in Matthew 19:3-9. When the Pharisees ask, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” Jesus answers by pointing them to God’s purposes for marriage:

And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

Prayer - 5 min

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

 

Audio clips from Family Life:

Divorce, "The Cost of Divorce on Children" 24:47 min

Divorce, "The Emotional Cost of Divorce" 24:27 min

Divorce, "The Financial Cost of Divorce" 24:47 imn

Divorce, "Hope When Things Seem Hopeless" 29:21 min

Divorce, "Impact of Divorce" 27:12 min

Marriage, Saving a Marriage, "Resurecting a Marriage" 25:33 min

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

The Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

Marriage - Husbands

Audio-1,

Marriage is first and foremost is a spiritual relationship called a marriage covanant with God. It works best when two people are connected individually to their spouse and then to their God, walking with Him, obeying Him through Scripture, and praying as individuals and as a couple.

Cheryl and I went to a Family Life Marriage Conference called a Weekend to Remember at the beginning of our marriage to get on the same page with a Biblical marriage. During the men's class it was suggested that the men write a poem to our wifes to explain our feeling for them. I wrote these at the beginning of our marriage when I was having trouble describing to her how I felt about her, sex, and the topic of marriage.

My belief in marriage cannot be better explained than in the text of the following poems. I am not a writter and they both took many drafts. The words and thoughts I put into the poems are God inspired as you will see.The initial drafts were rough but were revised many times over the first 5 years of our marriage to the following linked below.

We have been married now working on 19 years and we still have our moments, but overall we are walking "heaven on earth" with the flowing of God's blessings over us.

God's Provision for a Godly Husband

The Love between a Husband and his Wife

Ten Things Husbands Need to Remember
1. Wife's Birthday, wedding anniversery
2. Find out what she likes and do it with or for her.
3. Use her as wise counsel as directed by God
4. Text or email flowers to her let her know you are thinking of her.
5. Put your focus on pleasing her in your actions.
6. Do not compare your wife to any other woman.
7. Accept any failings your wife may have and do not make an issue of it.
8. Provide for yourself when possible to show you care about how hard she works at home.
9. Help with housecleaning and other chores.
10. Remove the "D" word from your vocabulary. It is not an option in God's eyes and should not be an option for you.

Prayer

 

“That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.” Titus 2:2

“Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.” Titus 2:6

"Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
Genesis 2:24

"And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."
Matthew 19:4-6

"Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them."
Colossians 3:19

"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God."
Ephesians 5:21

“Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;" Ephesians 5:33

 

Audio clips from Family Life:

Marriage, Husbands, "REAL Men Star Here" 30:18 min

Marriage, Husbands, "How to Be the Spiritual Leader of Your Family" 25:20 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Will the Real Man Please Stand Up?" 28:52 min

Marriage, Husbands, "REAL Men Starrt Here" 30:18 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Husbands Love Your Wives" 27:40 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Being a Man in Your Marriage" 28:15 min

Marriage, Husbands, "How to Live in Love With Your Wife" 28:05 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Expect Less and Get More" 26:24 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Praying for Your Wife" 44:24 min

Marriage, Husbands, "Trusting His Leadership" 28:30 min

Life Issues, Men, "A Leader at Home: Where Do I Start?" 24:55 min

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Marraige - Wifes

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that Sfeareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates." Proverbs 31:10-31

Prayer - 5 min

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

 

"Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
Genesis 2:24

"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God."
Ephesians 5:21

“and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians 5:33

"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord." Colossians 3:18

"I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully." 1 Timothy 5:14

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” Titus 2:3-5

"And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."
Matthew 19:4-6

Audio clips from Family Life:

Marriage, Wives, "Real Woman, Real Strong" 29:53 min

Marriage, Wives, "How to Support Your Wife" 26:10 min

Marriage, Wives, "Wives, Cheer Your Man" 22:44 min

Marriage, Wives, "Seeing My Husband As My Hero" 28:26 min

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Week 6, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

Blessings withheld because of sin and not walking daily with Jesus Christ (wife or husband or both):

Sins - 35 min

A Carnal Christian is one that is lives in the world. Sins of the flesh are something all Christians are exposed to daily. Carnal Christians are Christians that are saved but they do not enjoy the blessings from God. Blessings-2

When we have the Holy Spirit living in us we look at sin differently and turn away from it. If we listen to the temptations of sin like most people in the world we would step outside of God's blessings and would no longer be living Heaven on Earth.

The list of sins are different for each religion type. Check with your Pastor or Priest for a list that you should follow. The following Website by Christian author Richard Hollerman contains a List of Sins from the New Testament. The list is subject to authors opinion and not that of any church or religion.

 

Prayer - 5 min

 

 

 

 

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

 Closing Prayer - 5 min

"if thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him." Gensis 4:7

"For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin"
Psalm 38:18

"Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee." Psalm 119:11

"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal lifed through Jesus Christ or Lord." Romans 6:23

"My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous." 1 John 2:1

"But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleaneth us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." 1 John 1:7-8

 

Audio clips from Family Life:

Sins, Workaholism, "Why Workaholism Looks So Good" 26:39 min

Sins, Pornography, "This is Your Marriage on Porn" 30:17 min

Addiction, "Escaping the Secret Life") 29:20 min

Addiction, "Who is In Control") 26:16 min

Addiction, "How Can A Good Man Be Tempted By Porn" 35:57 min

Addiction, "Desending into Drugs" 24:32 min

 

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Week 7 - Review, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Music - Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Opening Prayer 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as I share my testimony with my Christian brothers. Help me show everyone the way to all the blessings you have promised us by my example. Help me show everyone how to have a closer walk with you daily Lord. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Graphic Presentation of a Typical Christian Life - 10 min

Born again Christian with eternal salvation thru Jesus Christ. Blessings-1

Blessings withheld because of sinful nature and not walking daily with Jesus Christ (wife or husband or both). Blessings-2

Blessings withheld from whole family or individuals in your care because of your sinful nature and not walking daily with Jesus Christ (you never know how your withheld blessings effect others around you). Blessings-3

Blessings for whole family or individuals in your care because of walking daily with Jesus Christ. You will never know how your blessings effect others around you. Blessings-3and4

Steps to obtaining all the blessings that the Lord Jesus Christ wants for your life. Blessings 1-4

The Goal, result of walking in Christ daily and NOT sinning. Blessings

Review - 35 min

Week 1 - Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding

Week 2 - Adultery

Week 3 - Christian Single Dating, Looking For A Spouse

Week 4 - Marriage Relationship, Divorce

Week 5 - Husbands, Wives

Week 6 - Sins

Week 7 - Review

Week 8 - Gospel Concert

 

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

Closing Prayer - 5 min

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Week 8 - Gospel Music Concert, Back_To_Top

Topic / Prayer
Bible References

Opening Prayer - 5 min

Dear Lord, thank you for the blessings of this life. Thank you for the blessings known and unknown to me. Lord, you promised us that were two or more are gathered in your name you would be there. Lord, be with us as we sing and praise You. Let our music and praise be pleasing to your ears. Dear Lord we ask for you to pour out abundant blessings on all of us. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Chainbreaker, by Zach Williams, 5 min

Online Gospel Music, by "The Disciples", 35 min

Saved by Christ Altar Call - 10 min

Walking In Christ (heaven on earth), Altar Call - 10 min

Closing Prayer - 5 min

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The Goal, receiving Christ's blessings as a result of walking in with Him daily. Following His teachings in the Bible and NOT sinning.

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